Stevie_Notts Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I had a great laugh checking out the miserable state my exwife's new beau lives in as his house is up for sale on Rightmove across the street from me, and I couldn't stop myself having a peek....as you do. What i found particularly creepy was some framed prints of my daughter who is about 1 or 2 years old in the prints (she's 5 now), that I guess he'd took on days out, etc, which would have been taken before our separation/divorce.Does anyone else find that rather odd, having photos up in your house of another mans child? No pics of the ex-wife or anyone else of family or friends of any significance, just my wee one. Whaddya think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishcumnock Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Yes and I think you're a stalker !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TartanJon Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 As opening posts go this one is a beezer Maybe you're ex put the photos up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobydoo Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Might have been the estate agents request to have kids photos but i think it is a bit unusual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scunnered Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I'm in no way going to take the piss Stevie, I don't know what you went through to get to where you are now... But that's probably not what some would deem normal behaviour. Maybe time to take a step back or talk to someone. PM away if you need to, you'll love me, I'm lovely Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flora MaDonald Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 If he doesn't stay with your ex, then that is simply nae right. I'd be over booting the guy's arse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
they've_been_suckered Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 yes, you're acting creepy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobydoo Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Protective I'd said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scunnered Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 As for the pictures, many people buying a house will do so with family in mind, seeing children will put them at ease. They will be viewing the property with a mind that it could be their family home, photos of couples and entire families will take away from the personal side of things. The estate agent will have requested the child's photos remain prominently on display while others are removed. It's all psychology. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killiefaetheferry Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 If he doesn't stay with your ex, then that is simply nae right. I'd be over booting the guy's arse. Tough one. This was my initial reaction but there may be a lot of 'what ifs' ? Like maybe the guy is commited to being a solid partner to the ex, and is stepping forward in good faith to help raise the wee one? It could be a really good thing that she will have another excellent role model/carer ? Impossible to say without knowing all the ins and outs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flora MaDonald Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 As for the pictures, many people buying a house will do so with family in mind, seeing children will put them at ease. They will be viewing the property with a mind that it could be their family home, photos of couples and entire families will take away from the personal side of things. The estate agent will have requested the child's photos remain prominently on display while others are removed. It's all psychology. I would've actually thought any decent estate agent would ask that pictures of children be removed (as per tv where they are pixled out). The world is full of horrible, creepy bastirts. In saying that, my pictures of Willie Miller might not provoke a rush for a sale. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thplinth Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Maybe he anticipated you being a nosey bastirt and is playing (successfully) with your mind. He is probably reading this thread... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SMcoolJ Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 We recently sold and were told to take down all family photos so not sure it's a selling technique (maybe different agents have different ideas). His house is currently in the public domain - so you haven't done anything wrong and you've probably done what most would do in having a wee peak. Would end my interest there though and certainly wouldn't bring up the photos and how you saw them. I would suggest that your ex-wife put the photos up herself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
they've_been_suckered Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 are pictures included under fixtures and fittings? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thplinth Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Whaddya think? Put on a heavy disguise and go for a viewing. Report back your findings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peever1745 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 If you look through his drawers you'll probably find some naked photos of your ex taken in your house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ormond Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 If you look through his drawers you'll probably find some naked photos of your ex taken in your house.Don't be a khunt. The laddie is concerned about his bairn here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peever1745 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Don't be a khunt. The laddie is concerned about his bairn here. Does he not think the framed photos of his kids would have been put there by his cheating phuk of a wife? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ormond Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Does he not think the framed photos of his kids would have been put there by his cheating phuk of a wife?You're a scumbag. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peever1745 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 You're a scumbag. Sticks and stones mate but I dont go stalking my ex like a muppet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbcmfc Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Sounds reasonably normal to me. I know that you probably won't like the guy (how much might depend on the timeline?) but is it not just that your daughter comes as part of the package with your ex, and he's making an effort to create a new family? Unless you have had any other alarm bells, it doesn't sound particularly creepy to me, although would probably be a weird (or upsetting) thing for you to see. I'm sure our photos that you could see in the estate agents photos were out of focus, but that sort of stuff is probably just down to the estate agents preference. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevie_Notts Posted November 25, 2015 Author Share Posted November 25, 2015 You're a scumbag. Actually he's right I'm afraid...she is / was LOLOLOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ormond Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Actually he's right I'm afraid...she is / was LOLOLOL You're on here to tell everyone that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevie_Notts Posted November 25, 2015 Author Share Posted November 25, 2015 If you look through his drawers you'll probably find some naked photos of your ex taken in your house. Nah...thats already happened, they're on his phone,i i've seen them already. 'tis old news that! hahahaha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killiefaetheferry Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Are you serious ? How would you have seen the photos ? Do you have an amicable relationship with your ex ? How does anyone, male or female, have the energy to have an affair, with a small child to look after ? Genuine question.......even if I wanted to, I would be physically and mentally incapable of conducting any secret liaisons due to my 2 and 4 year olds running me absolutely ragged. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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